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I am going to hand you the one secret that will completely change how you interact with girls. The secret is simple but you need to master it. It is a skill to work on for the rest of your life, and when you do, it will help out in every aspect of your life. Are you ready to improve your skills with girls?

I've been where you are before and I just can't let you keep doing the same thing you have been doing. I can't let you hang out at home on the weekend, dateless, hoping that a woman would call and ask you out. You need to drop all the stuff you've been wasting time on and take this step to become the man you know you should be. You need to become the Alpha Male, the guy that women want. You can have the women hanging all over you. Drop the TV remote and make a better life for yourself.

Let me tell you the big secret. Women are after a strong man. They need a guy who loves himself. It doesn't matter if you are overweight, losing your hair...none of that matters to a girl. How rich you are doesn't matter. The car you have doesn't matter to them. Women aren't concerned about any of those things. But you need to master your self so that you will have a much better time approaching girls. Just remember, there are so many women available that even if one rejects you, there is plenty more where that girl came from. It is so easy.

Take a deep look at yourself and find that confidence you need to start getting girls. It is so much more easy than you think, but you need to take the first step and decide that you are ready to change into the man you've always wanted to be. Start making the change now and you may just be surprised!

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Source: http://www.articletrader.com ]]> http://www.articletrader.com/self-improvement/attraction/how-to-get-the-perfect-kanji-tattoo-you-truly-deserve.html http://www.articletrader.com/self-improvement/attraction/how-to-get-the-perfect-kanji-tattoo-you-truly-deserve.html Wed, 20 Jun 2007 00:00:00 -0500 Kanji was originated from Chinese Characters.
Kanji is the term for Chinese characters that are used in the Japanese language. There are two different types of characters that are used in written Japanese: kana, which includes the types of writing known as hiragana and katakana, and kanji. All written Japanese evolved from written Chinese, and were modified to create the different sounds of the Japanese language. Kanji in Japanese are typically characters from the Chinese language that have been adapted to mean Japanese words. The meanings in Chinese and Japanese can be the same but pronounced differently, or they may have entirely different meanings. Some kanji were developed in Japan and are not seen in the Chinese language at all. Still other kanji are written in different forms but have the same meaning.

Japanese Kanji Tattoos VS Chinese Symbol Tattoos.
The Kanji Tattoos you have seen in the tattoo parlor or anywhere else are actually Chinese Symbol Tattoos, when you are planning to get a Kanji Tattoo, Choosing Chinese Symbol Tattoos instead of Japanese Kanji Tattoos, Why? Japanese Kanji only have hundreds of writing symbols which evolved from written Chinese Symbols, You can not get whatever you want to express by using Japanese Kanji. Whereas, Chinese Symbols have about 4000 year history and there are 47,035 Chinese symbols in Chinese Kangxi Dictionary. Put it simple, You can get whatever you want to express in Chinese symbols.

How to Get a perfect Kanji Tattoo you truly deserve
My Name is Yingying, I am a Chinese tattoo artist, and have been helping the western people get their Kanji tattoos for three years. Kanji have a complex beauty as well as individual meanings. People who get Kanji tattoos are often drawn to this. Unfortunately, the flip-side is that there are a lot of Kanji tattoo Mistakes. I have personally seen such elementary mistakes as Kanji being tattooed backward and meant something else other than intended. My goal is to help people explore the beauty and complexity of Kanji safe in the knowledge that they are dealing with the professional. Why many western people make mistakes with their kanji tattoos, the main reason is because they made no preparation before inking and just walked into a tattoo parlor without knowing what they would get. And then their Chinese tattoos became the permanent source to embarrass them. Yes, they can get their tattoo removed, but removing unwanted tattoos is a very expensive, lengthy and painful ordeal!
You are wise to research your best possible options before going through with it.

First: you need to find a pro to do the translation, instead of anyone who speaks Chinese. The Chinese symbol (Kanji) has a time span of 4000 years and a geography span across countries like China, Japan, Korea and Taiwan. It simply takes knowledge and expertise to do the translation well.

Second: the Chinese Symbols need to be custom designed by writing them into Chinese calligraphy. Your body deserves Chinese calligraphy art, NOT kanji writing! Chinese calligraphy is not just Chinese kanji writing, neither just writing well. It is an art that can display spirits. People can feel the mood, feeling, thought from the calligraphy. Having a Chinese calligraphy tattoo is a love and a respect of yourself. Moreover, Custom designed kanji Tattoos also include stencil outline. Most people don't realize that every tattoo design has a matching stencil.
To apply tattoos on the skin, the tattoo artist needs both a good clear reference of the actual design, and well drawn stencils (line drawings) as the "blueprint" for the actual tattoo. When inking, your tattoo artist will use stencil outlines to trace the artwork onto your body. Stencil outlines are vital for inking kanji as it can prevent tattooists from making mistakes while inking.

Yingying is a Chinese tattoo artist, and have been helping the western people get their Chinese tattoos for three years. She Provide custom Chinese Tattoo Translation and design service. Please Visit her website to view stunning Chinese Tattoo Pictures.

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Source: http://www.articletrader.com ]]> http://www.articletrader.com/self-improvement/attraction/getting-clear-about-law-of-attraction.html http://www.articletrader.com/self-improvement/attraction/getting-clear-about-law-of-attraction.html Thu, 25 Jun 2009 11:59:05 -0500
You attract what you think and feel whether you want it or not.

There are three basic steps to creating everything you desire with the Universal Law of Attraction. The steps are...

1. Ask

2. Answer

3. Receive

Sounds pretty simple, right?

It IS simple IF you have practiced and mastered HOW to ask, HOW the answer is given and HOW to receive.

Let's break it down.

Law of Attraction means simply that like attracts like. Law of Attraction is applied when you attract what you are thinking about.

You attract what you are thinking about... period... whether you want it or not........ yes, whether you want it or not.

When you are thinking about how much debt you have or you are thinking how much you do NOT want debt, that is what you are going to get more of - debt.

Think instead of how it feels to be free with more money than you can ever spend and all the good you can do with that money.

Choose to change your thoughts.

When you are thinking about illness in the people all around you, that is what you are going to get - illness.

Think instead of how it feels to be well and express gratitude for all that you have in your life.

Choose to change your thoughts.

When you are thinking about the prosperity and well being in your life, that is what you are going to get more of - prosperity and well being.

Choose to think more of well being.

Now, back to the three steps:

1. ASK

Before we can clearly ask for what we want, we must KNOW what we want. Most of us know what we don't want. However, when asked for what we DO want, we are often unclear.

Get clear about what you DO want.

2. ANSWER

The answer is always given and that is not your work. That is the work of God, Universe, Spirit, Higher Self, whatever you choose to call the greater energy that is always present.

Most of us ask and then we get in the middle of the Answer and start figuring out how to get that for which we have asked... instead of allowing the answer to be GIVEN.

3. RECEIVE

Our job in step three is simply to receive and allow what we have asked for to come to us. It helps if we believe we are worthy (and we are!) of receiving.

A simple affirmation is: I am open to receiving.

Sounds simple, right?

It is simple with practice.
It is simple when we learn to let go.
It is simple when we believe we deserve it.
It is simiple when we can detach from the outcome.

Know that God, Universe, Spirit, Higher Self, can dream for us much more than we can dream for ourselves.

Ask. Answer. Receive.



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Linda Miller is a Spiritual Entrepreneur, Internet Marketer and Law of Attraction Mentor. Subscribe to Linda's free newsletter and marketing tips: http://www.SpiritualEntrepreneurToday.com and http://www.LOAMarketingTips.com

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You went out with them. You had a good time. You sent a follow-up text and . . . they don't text you back. You start to think “Why doesn't this person like me? I like them. Why didn't they text me back?”

Then you text them again a couple days later, and they don't text you back. You start over thinking the situation. You start thinking “What did I do wrong? I thought they liked me. What are they thinking?” People always want to know what that other person is thinking.

So you start to drive yourself crazy wondering if there is anything you could have done differently. You even start talking to your friends and driving them crazy. You recap the date in your own mind.

You go over everything you said on the date and you start to think “Maybe I shouldn't have done that (or said that).” Besides becoming a different person to whom that other person is attracted, there is nothing you can do!

Remember all of the people you have gone out with on dates whom YOU never called back or texted. It works both ways.

So stop getting so upset about one person. Realize that you just didn't have the chemistry that you thought you had with that person and move on. Drop the ego!

Think about all the people you have gone out with that were one-date wonders. You went out with them and you really didn't like them, so you didn't bother returning their calls or their texts. It works both ways!

When I go out with somebody and I have a good time, I'll call or text them the next day and tell them so. If they don't call or text me back, I don't drive them crazy.

More importantly, I don't drive myself crazy. I am not a mind reader. I don't know why they decided not to like me.

You will never know why someone decides not to like you. You have just got to learn that part of dating is the unknown. Unless you and your friends are mind readers, you will never know why someone did not text you back.

There's another part to this. It is the reason I titled this blog “Delete The Number.”

Three weeks after you didn't get a return text from someone, you catch a buzz and you either drunk text them or mistakenly text them instead of someone with the same first name whom you text every day. A mistake text is alright, but a drunk text is not.

There's a good reason you do not want to do this. What usually happens when you drunk text someone in this situation, is that you will ask them why they didn't text you back or why they didn't like you. This is where you start to look desperate and clingy.

From now on, follow this rule: If after going out on a date with someone you have texted them twice and they haven't gotten back to you, DELETE THAT NUMBER!!!

Your cell phone should not look like your myspace page where you have a couple hundred people who are your “friends” but are people to whom you never talk. That's what I love about myspace . . . I have 700 friends and I don't know who they are! (That, however, is a blog for another day).

This rule applies even if you have gone out with someone more than once. I know you've probably asked yourself “Why are they not into me? I don't understand how they could change their mind. We seemed to have so much fun. It seemed like we really clicked.” Think about this for a second.

You have gone out with people with whom you had a good time on a date, but after sleeping on it you changed your mind about them. That's what we do as humans. Once you have time to think about something after “the moment” has passed, we sometimes change our minds.

My last car I liked driving . . . for about four days. Then I changed my mind. That is why stores have return policies. That woman you went out with, she returned you . . . she changed her mind.

I tend to judge a date this way. When I go out with someone and I wake up the next morning thinking about them, I know I want to see them again.

If, on the other hand, I don't realize I had a date the night before until after I've woken up and worked the entire next day, it means that I am not into that person. They didn't excite me enough.

It does not mean I didn't have a good time or that they weren't a nice person. There just wasn't enough chemistry. It is not about you . . . It just means that the person didn't share the same excitement that you did.


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Not using the correct hair removal product can cause serious problems. The quick treatments offered by products such as Nair make things quick and long lasting but the chemicals can cause your skin to burn, redness, or irritation. These chemicals essentially burn the hair off your body and while it's safe to use them in most cases, following the directions correctly is a must. Those with skin issues should speak with a dermatologist to ensure they can apply these products in a safe manner.

While there are some issues with hair removal products, there are more than enough benefits to make them a great addition to your grooming needs. Nair and products like Nair Hair remover can lengthen the time between hair showing since they remove hair below the folicals. Another great benefit is the easy and quickness with which they can be applied. Instead of having razors, lotions, after shaves, and other items, these types of hair removal products give you one quick and easy lotion to apply and then remove. The quality of the hair removal is in almost all cases much better than the use of regular shaving utensils.

Overall, hair removal products have come a long way and while there should be some apprehension when using them, they are a great way to remove unwanted hair quickly and easily.

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Ben Thiesmann is a freelance writer specializing in health and fitness. Nair and Nair hair removal products can be purchased at Pink Apple, the female personal care superstore.

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As the world evolves, humanity is learning to work from the heart. We may have been taught that the way to get what we want is to follow certain rules, play particular games, or even engage in acts that use less than our highest integrity. The only rules we need to apply are those of intention and connection. In terms of energy, we can see that it takes a lot of energy to keep up a false front or act in a way that is counter to our true nature, but much less energy is expended when we can just be and enjoy connections that energize us in return. Then our energy can be directed toward living the life we want right now.

Society has certain expectations of behavior and the roles each of us should play, but as spiritual beings we are not bound by these superficial structures unless we choose to accept them. Instead, we can listen to our hearts and follow what we know to be true and meaningful for us. In doing so, we will find others who have chosen the same path. It can be easy to get caught up in following goals that appear to be what we want, but when we pursue the underlying value, we are certain to stay on our right path and continue to feed our soul.


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Source: http://www.articletrader.com ]]> http://www.articletrader.com/self-improvement/attraction/5-killer-flirting-tips-for-men.html http://www.articletrader.com/self-improvement/attraction/5-killer-flirting-tips-for-men.html Thu, 02 Oct 2008 00:00:00 -0500
Some men took on this knew challenge and started looking for flirting tips while some just took the examples from their parents and peers and used those to attract women. What did become clear in the 20th century was that men needed to know how to flirt with women, and that it’s much different than what the ordinary man thinks is flirting.

Most importantly, men are not born knowing how to flirt and it’s a subject that’s evolving and changing throughout time. Right now, I’m going to share the top 5 flirting tips that have been proven to work in the 20th century. Every man that applies these flirting tips will see better results with women.

Flirting is the first step in any relationship or interaction with a woman, and it cannot be skipped. In fact, it’s the most important step! It’s what starts the fire and creates the attraction. It is the step that defines a man’s success with women. So let’s jump into the top 5 flirting tips for men:

Flirting Tips #1 - Make Physical Contact

Physical interaction has a huge impact on a woman’s internal mechanics. She is very aware of touch and if it’s done in a non-threatening way she will be more drawn to you.

Once you initiate touch, make sure to let her touch you back to gauge her level of interest. If she responds to your touch, that’s a good indicator that she feels you are safe and that she is interested in you.

Flirting Tips #2 - Leave on a high – get her laughing

Your ending is the most important part in a conversation. It’s like when you take clay and mold it, but the only thing that really makes a long-term impact is what that clay ends off hardening into.

Let’s say you’re planning on meeting up with a girl. What you don’t want to do is end off a conversation with, “ya we will see you then, bye.” You would be a lot more successful if you ended it off with, “Yeah just try not to embarrass me.” or “Don’t forget to paint your toe nails.” or “This is where you say you can’t wait to see me and hope you can keep your hands to yourself.” It creates a lot more excitement in her to want to meet up with you or just interact with you again.

Flirting Tips #3 - Qualify, Qualify, Qualify

Qualifying is not easy for men. Men seemed to be affected by a good looking woman and then go into this mood of wanting to please her in any way they can. They basically sell themselves until they present a deal that costs the woman nothing. If it costs the woman nothing to have you or lose you, then you can imagine what kind of value that gives her. Don’t lose your value - that’s what is making her want you. The best way to maintain your value is by qualifying.

You can qualify by asking questions like, “that’s a cool necklace, did you get it traveling?” Or if you want to be flirty and do what I call turning the tables you can say, “So are you going to ask me out or what?” or “You didn’t just tell me you liked hiking to get me to like you, did you?” Just remember to always give your approval whenever you’re interacting.

Flirting Tips #4 - Props

Props are awesome to use when you want women to come up to you and talk to you. They’re also perfect for a fallback option when you need something to talk about that you know works every time. Props give you something to always talk about and move forward with.

For instance, you could have a bandana that hangs out of your pocket or a hat that stands out or just a shirt that says something funny. Then, when a woman asks about the bandana, you can say something like, “it was a rough time in my life, and I don’t think we’re good enough friends to talk about this yet” then you can go into some funny story or whatever you want. The most important thing about this flirting tip is that it breaks the ice and gets the conversation rolling.

Flirting Tips #5 - Flirt through texting

Being successful with women is becoming easier and easier for men. Why? Because communication through texting, text messaging, and sms text messages has became such a huge part of everyday communication. This is a gold mine for men. It gives you time to get the right message (which also improves your real world flirting), you can interact with more than one woman at once to increase your chances, and it builds your confidence. Most importantly, it cuts out all the potentially negative attraction triggers women usually see, such as clothes, smile, breath, hair, etc. All you’re left with are words and timing.

Once you get the right words with the right timing, you can expect a ton of success with women. And since most men fail at flirting in texting, you will stand above the rest and see a lot more women responding desirably to you.

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Wallets

On Valentine’s Day, you can present a nice wallet to your boyfriend or husband. You can help him to replace his old wallet with a brand new one. Choose the most stylish and elegant leather wallet for your partner, when you go shopping for it. The usefulness of this Valentine’s Day gift would surely make your lover love you more.

Luxury watch

How about buying a new watch for him? Yes, a luxury acts well as one of the best Valentine’s Day gifts for him. You are bound to see and enjoy the loving smile on his face, when you present a watch to your partner on Valentine’s Day. Opt for a well known brand when you decide to buy a luxury watch for him. Some of the excellent options include TAG Heur, Jaeger LeCoultre, and Rado.

Cuff links

Another excellent gift idea for him would be cuff links. The presentation of cuff links on Valentine’s Day would surely not fail to impress your guy. Select the cuff links, which may look good on him. Options include level cuff links and Celtic love knot cuff links.

Electronic gifts

Is your boyfriend or husband a gizmo freak? You can consider buying any of the electronic gifts for him. IPods, digital camcorders, satellite radio, and laptops are some of the better gift options to explore in this category. You can buy him an Apple iPod or a Sony Digital Camcorder. A Delphi Personal Satellite Radio would also suit the occasion. Laptops or even computer accessories could also be gifted to him. You can create your own collection of romantic songs, and present it to your boyfriend or husband. Buy him a DVD of his favorite movie, and he is likely to appreciate it a lot.


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It’s important to remember that gifts can never replace the best gifts for him that you could possibly give to your partner, which is the love and affection you have for him. So keep that point in mind, and start searching for the right Valentine’s Day gift to buy for him.


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The same is true of people. Sometimes people who are very similar join together and live a happy existence; they enjoy the same music, have the same values and do the same activities on Friday nights. They have the same group of friends and attend the same church every Sunday morning.

Sometimes this is not the case and two people who are polar opposites are drawn together. Usually this is because one or the other of them has something that the other wants. A person who is generally very cynical and pessimistic may be drawn to someone with a sense of eternal optimism. An individual who has spent their whole life following the rules dictated by society for proper behavior may be drawn to a free spirit who is content to live their life the way that they see fit, regardless of the opinions of others.

Such matches at times may prove to be volatile, resulting in an explosion and the secondary damages that go along with it. Other times they may balance each other, as in the case of the positively and negatively charged electrons; the particles are neutralized when they are mixed together. These matches have long since stumped psychologists and others looking at these relationships from a purely subjective viewpoint. How can two people who have nothing in common form a strong, successful relationship? What they do not realize is that it is simply yet another example of nature's own selection principles at work.

Forming a relationship with someone who is your polar opposite is not always going to be easy, regardless of how well you complement each other. You are going to have different viewpoints on different issues and different lifestyles to boot. The most important factors in these types of relationships are patience and understanding. Remember that you knew they were very different from you when you chose to embark on this relationship; you cannot expect them to change now.

Before you choose to permanently commit to someone who is your opposite there are a few questions you are going to need to answer. What are their differences in the things that matter? (home, children, etc.) Can you be happy with these differences? If the answer to the second question is no it would be wise to take a step back from the relationship before committing to something that you cannot step back from. If, on the other hand, the answer is yes prepare to enjoy a lifetime that, while it will never be smooth, will certainly never be boring.




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Source: http://www.articletrader.com ]]> http://www.articletrader.com/self-improvement/attraction/the-significance-of-timing-in-making-up-with-your-ex-girlfriend.html http://www.articletrader.com/self-improvement/attraction/the-significance-of-timing-in-making-up-with-your-ex-girlfriend.html Wed, 06 May 2009 02:41:34 -0500 To say the least, timing is of essence while trying to regain your ex-girl friend. You should not delay in making up with your ex and on top of that also do not try to make up instantly. Here it is important to avoid the mistake of running to your ex right after the breakup. If you do so most of the times she will turn you down right off the bat. On the other hand if you wait too long to make your move, she might consider starting up a new relationship with someone else. The perfect formula for winning your girl friend back is a combination of endurance, determination and making the move at the precise time.
It's not an intelligent move to try to get in touch with her straight away subsequent to the breakup. Both parties need their breathing space to reflect upon their feelings. If you make a move too fast she might refuse you as she would be having diverse thoughts about the whole incident. The break ups always requires time to heal wounds.
She might settle only being a friend at first, but don't let this demoralize you, as it's would always be a good start. It is an indication that she is ready to accept you back and may lead to a healthier relationship down the road.



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